Sadie Quinn Baker from Every Life Has A Story

Becky & Zak lost their first born child, Sadie Quinn, on July 10th, 2010 due to pre-eclampsia & HELLP syndrome at 24 weeks pregnant.

Hummingbirds remind me of my Sadie~tiny, gorgeous, and perfect! I was nearly kissed on my cheek by one my first week home from the hospital as I sat on my proch, there began my love for humming birds! I particularly love the ones with green on them as I imagine Sadie would have had green eyes like her daddy and myself!!

Saturday, July 9, 2011

A few questions...?

I found myself wondering the following questions today:

What the heck is wrong with people?
Do people have no care, concern or fellow feelings for other people?

As I pondered these questions I came to the conclusion that people forget! Bottom line that is my belief, people forget that you had a baby and that baby died after birth! People forget the utter despair that has continued from that day forward! People forget you are still grieving! People forget!

Well from this day on I am done! I'm done putting myself through torture to pacify everyone else...because I now know it doesn't matter, it'll never be enough! I'm done forgoing my comfort and sanity for people who don't return the respect! No more will I let people walk all over me...I AM DONE!!!!


Jen said...

Unfortunately, if we left things to the world's (i.e. people's) devices, our babies would become nothing more than a faint memory. We're their mommies though and they'll always be important to us. Stand up for yourself and Sadie...


Carly said...

I agree w/ Jen's comment. They are our children, our babies, and we can stand up for them, talk about them, and keep their memories alive. People just don't get it.

Tiffany said...

Oh hun, I hope everything is ok. Im sorry Ive been mia lately. I have been so busy and incredibly ill. Im sorry I have not been able to email you. Please know Im here if you need me. <3